Wednesday, September 5, 2007

A husband's purpose during pregnancy

Got this from Helium.com. Very useful article to new father's asking what the heck they are supposed to do during their wive's pregnancy! I certainly found myself wondering that a few days ago... I mean, I think I did okay during the first trimester, supporting wifey when she felt pukey, letting her order 5 types of food knowing full well she wasn't going to be able to finish it (hence me the vacuum...) etc. She's enjoying herself much more now, shopping, eating and meeting friends. Suddenly, I don't feel so useful anymore? Read the article below... it seems we are quite important afterall... phew!

We Need You Daddy - from Helium.com
To most wives pregnancy is exciting and beautiful. We can't wait to tell family and friends. We plan our baby shower. We even pick out baby names before we know the sex of our baby. Becoming a mother makes you feel like a real woman more than anything else you experience.

Men see pregnancy different. They think of the expenses, the weight gain of their wives, insecurity of being a good provider, and will the sex be the same. Husbands and wives think about different things when it comes to pregnancy.

A wife wants her husband to be apart of every event that occurs during the pregnancy. After all he did make the baby. It is important that the husband listen to his wife when she talks about the pregnancy. When their is good communication, the wife won't become stressed. Yes, women will have days when their hormones are out of control. Husbands be patient. She's carrying your child. A hug, kiss, or back rub will get everything under control. Women love to be touched and held during pregnancy. Tell your wife she is beautiful. Most women have a special glow. We feel good about ourselves when you tell us we look good.

Having your partners support makes nine months of pregnancy a lot easier. Support in the delivery room is especially important. A lot of moms are scared because they don't know what to expect. We look at our husbands as our protectors and supporters. With our husbands assisting us in the delivery room we can be calm and not afraid.

Husbands we need you.


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